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“Pathetic, talentless Shinba somehow keeps brilliant girlfriend Hizumi through his desperate, tearful failures.”
How to Love a Loser
ダメ人間の愛しかた
6.84
12,409 rank · 3,523 readers · 25 favorites
Romance
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Synopsis
Pathetic, talentless Shinba somehow keeps brilliant girlfriend Hizumi through his desperate, tearful failures.
Shinba has no talent, no job, no money—in short, he's got nothing going for him. But despite the odds, this good for-nothing guy has a girlfriend. Hizumi is beautiful, smart, and extremely competent. Some might wonder how she could love such a loser. Well, it might have something to do with the way he tries his best but still fails pathetically, or the way he quivers with tears in his eyes as he begs for another chance...but who's to say? (Source: Yen Press)
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Community consensus
Derived from 3 sampled reviews
7.3
/10
What 3 readers settled on.
100%
recommend
Score distribution
median 8
mode 8
σ 0.94
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Strong agreement
σ 0.94 · scores cluster tight
The polarity gap
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Not enough recommend signal yet
Score over time
↑ 1.33
Running avg · Mar 2024 → Mar 2026
Snap verdicts
· shortest highly-rated reviews
- 8 “This is one of my top favorites and I get how it went viral on tiktok Mystery woman who mocks and gives tips to an MC who is basically a loser on all fronts. It is not known how they began dating,...”
- 8 “This story has good development, the art is really great, and the themes are very Japanese, but the plot is original. The plot feels original because the manga starts with the protagonists already...”
- 6 “6.7/10 Eh, idk how to feel about this manga, since it’s your typical “fmc constantly diminishes the loser mc, and he slowly fixes himself, but the fmc actually loves the mc for some apparent...”
Verbosity
Short · 67%
Medium · 33%
Long · 0%
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A Manga Publication
- Published Nov 2023 – ongoing
- Source Manga media type
- Ref. BS-M72046 catalog