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“Subin's messy twenties: drunken confession to straight roommate Hyunwoo, two years recovery, then Hyunwoo's military return.”
How to Hate Mate
하테마테
7.1
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Synopsis
Subin's messy twenties: drunken confession to straight roommate Hyunwoo, two years recovery, then Hyunwoo's military return.
Everyone's twenties are sprinkled with regrets, but Subin's is spent stumbling from one mistake to the next. He gets drunk, comes out of the closet and clumsily confesses his feelings to his straight roommate all in one night. It takes two years, but he starts to pull his life together. That is, until his old roommate, Hyunwoo, returns from the military. (Source: Lezhin Entertainment)
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median 9.5
mode 9
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- 10 “The art is absolutely stunning, earning a perfect 10/10, and the story offers a refreshing, realistic look at complex, caring people. While the main character’s extreme immaturity and the other...”
- 9 “Hate Mate excels with its deeply realistic, complex characters and a refreshing, human-centric approach to the BL genre that stands out from typical low-effort stories. While the unique art style...”
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A self-contained story.
No sequels, spin-offs or alternate tellings — How to Hate Mate begins and ends here.
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A Manhwa Publication
- Format 26 × 3 ch × vol
- Total read 3h 28m approx
- Published Dec 2016 – Dec 2018
- Source Manhwa media type
- Ref. BS-M53354 catalog